There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the fence.
The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily, gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally, the day came when the boy didn’t lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pulls out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.
The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said “you have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one.”
Moral: You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won’t matter how many times you say I’m sorry, the wound is still there. Make sure you control your temper the next time you are tempted to say something you will regret later.
January 5, 2014 at 10:58 pm
its very useful story for every one
March 18, 2014 at 5:46 am
It is really a meaningful lesson for me .
January 15, 2015 at 6:06 am
its really good and informative
October 9, 2015 at 5:02 am
Dear, Jacob
Thanks for writing a such type of story, thst helps the people to control their anger..
Thanks….
February 5, 2016 at 1:15 am
An Amazing Story…Thanks ….Jacob
February 19, 2016 at 6:43 am
Great story. Easy to relate to.
March 6, 2016 at 6:22 pm
Its good lessons for everyone ,but i have a bad temper i cant controlled i dont know what to do can you tell me something help me to controlled
May 7, 2016 at 10:45 pm
I always be angry about small thing in life but I learn to control my anger!
June 5, 2016 at 7:33 am
Good lesson for evry one
June 16, 2016 at 12:52 am
Its a good lesson even for me